Does it feel more like a roommate relationship than a loving partnership? If intimacy has faded, trust has eroded, or the weight of unhealed wounds is quietly pulling you apart — you are in the right place.
I am Dr. Lila — a Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Sex Therapist, Ordained Ministers, and Marriage Coach with over 37 years of covenant marriage. I bring clinical expertise, theological grounding, and the lived experience of a marriage that was tested, healed, and transformed. I do not just teach restoration. I have lived it.
"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person."
Seeking support does not mean your marriage has failed. Sometimes it means you have decided your marriage is too important to neglect.
You don’t have to have a perfect marriage to have a better marriage.
You don’t have to have a perfect marriage to have a better marriage.
If you are ready to heal what has been wounded, strengthen what remains, and intentionally build a healthier, more connected relationship, take the next step today.
Let’s Make a Better Marriage contact today!
Places to get started
Couples Therapy
Clinically grounded, faith-integrated couples therapy for married couples navigating disconnection, conflict, infidelity, and intimacy breakdown. Available via telehealth in Georgia and Texas. [Learn More →]
Premarital Counseling & Coaching
Build your covenant on the right foundation. Our structured premarital program equips engaged couples with the tools, frameworks, and conversations that protect a marriage before it begins. [Learn More →]
Sex-Therapy
Faith-Integrated Sex Therapy. Sexuality is not separate from your faith. It is part of it. For Christian couples and individuals who want healing, wholeness, and intimacy — without leaving their faith at the door.
Trauma
About Me
I have an unstoppable passion for helping couples who are committed to making their marriage better — not just functional, but transformed.
But I want you to know that this passion did not begin in a classroom. It began in my own marriage.
I married young, believing love was enough — and that I already knew everything I needed to make my marriage work. It did not take long for unhealed wounds I did not even know I was carrying to begin quietly eroding what my husband and I were building together. Without the right knowledge, the right tools, or the right support, we found ourselves fighting each other instead of fighting for the covenant we had made.
Seven years into our marriage, the right resources finally reached us. What happened next changed everything.